At last! Nokia phone to Google Calendar synchronization that actually seems to work!
After trying various freeware/shareware programs which never seemed to get out of beta and screwed with the phone or Google calendars in varied and "interesting" ways I may finally have found a worker.
It actually seems to work well enough that I'd be willing to pay for it. And I never buy software if I can find something Open Source to do the job!
Currently using 7 day trial on Nokia 6124.